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The 5 Skills Every Successful Public Speaker Needs
I recently ran across a study that looked at five life skills people needed to have better physical and mental health. As I was studying the study, it occurred to me that these five desiderata were essential for a good professional speaking life as well. The life skills are conscientiousness, optimism, emotional stability, control, and determination. I’ll take each one in turn.
Conscientiousness
The first of these, conscientiousness, shows up on many lists and studies as a key factor for success in life, and as such it’s hardly a surprise that I would put it on the Successful Speaker List. What might be less well known is that the speaking industry prizes conscientiousness over pyrotechnics as a speaker. In other words, the industry is more likely to get you lots of repeat business if you are conscientious and easy to work with first, and a great speaker second, rather than the other way around. So don’t rely on your sheer brilliance to catapult you to success as a pro speaker if you’re going to feel entitled to be hard on all the support people around you. The industry remembers, and it doesn’t like prima donnas.
Optimism
Speakers get invitations to speak from potentially a number of different sources, whether it’s a direct inquiry from your marketing efforts, or a speaker bureau…
